There is this girl I like, or should I say liked, or better yet, although I used to like her I've convinced myself to not like her anymore, hence I no longer prefer to say that "there is this girl I like."
The problem is that I try to avoid this girl as much as possible now, and seeing her around once in a while I find myself trying to avoid being seen by her as well. Either way my life is good, and I have plenty of females I date/fool around with, but, there is something different about that one girl I mentioned above.
I try to get over her, and I do a pretty good job at it, and then when I see her again the shit hits the fan inside me and I'm back to wishing that I didn't see her. Is there any help for me, or should I hang myself from my pe*** now and get it over with?
Guest
Posted Fri Jul 18, 2008
How long have you known this girl?
Guest
Posted Fri Jul 18, 2008
hmm why are you avoiding her though? does she know about your feelings
v acht Guest
Posted Fri Jul 18, 2008
Is this your therapy? Posting about a girl you don't like for a bunch of strangers to endure?
Guest
Posted Sat Jul 19, 2008
Anonymous wrote:
How long have you known this girl?
Does that make any difference in this situation?
Guest
Posted Sat Jul 19, 2008
Anonymous wrote:
hmm why are you avoiding her though? does she know about your feelings
Yes she does thats why im avoiding her
Guest
Posted Sat Jul 19, 2008
v acht wrote:
Is this your therapy? Posting about a girl you don't like for a bunch of strangers to endure?
lol youre funny, who ever you are
Darth-Vader Guest
Posted Sat Jul 19, 2008
There is nothing different about the girl you mentioned above aside from the possibility that she rejected you once, am I correct?
I think this is a case of wanting someone you can't have, or will not have. You feel embarrassed around her, and in return you distance yourself from her; the fact that you avoid being seen by her instinctively is also a sign that you still like her. When you like a girl who doesn’t like you in return it creates somewhat of a delusional affect on your mind about your feelings towards her.
In other words, you feel this way because she is someone you cannot possess; you are possessive and controlling; therefore, for your own sake, and for the sake of that girl remove her from your delusional thoughts and you’ll find yourself feeling much better.
Go now, and may the DarkSide be with you.
KezEnchAxchikEmEli Member
Joined: 12 Jul 2008 Posts: 68
Posted Mon Jul 21, 2008
Anonymous wrote:
There is this girl I like, or should I say liked, or better yet, although I used to like her I've convinced myself to not like her anymore, hence I no longer prefer to say that "there is this girl I like."
The problem is that I try to avoid this girl as much as possible now, and seeing her around once in a while I find myself trying to avoid being seen by her as well. Either way my life is good, and I have plenty of females I date/fool around with, but, there is something different about that one girl I mentioned above.
I try to get over her, and I do a pretty good job at it, and then when I see her again the shit hits the fan inside me and I'm back to wishing that I didn't see her. Is there any help for me, or should I hang myself from my pe*** now and get it over with?
lol okay kyank i c lots og guys commented u, lool heres one froma GIRL... lol why are u hiding from her ?? if she knows how u feel? is it cuz she dont like u the same way?? OFcourse they way ur acting is because face it u dont LIKE this girl u LOVE this girl, in ur heart yerevi u think this girl should be ur SHORTY WIFEY TILL DEATH DO US APART lol u can admit it or not, i dont care vorov im a girl and hastat thats true loool
bites for real why are u hiding from her?? did she say she dont like u or what??? And u might have lots of hoes but only ONE girl can steal UR HEART and that isnt a HOE on day ur genna get tired of fooling around and look for the ONE...
Guest
Posted Mon Jul 21, 2008
Neah, good call, you were right 4 out of 4 times; but, its all good, and I think this might just be a pro-longed phase of dealing with not having/getting what I want, and I will soon find myself over the entire thing.
Darth-Vader Guest
Posted Mon Jul 21, 2008
What is this, everytime I come here someone is in love or trying to fall out of love.
I smell bullshit guy, I think you should A) Forget about her or B) Find a way to win her over...the rest is on you.
Guest
Posted Tue Jul 22, 2008
Getting over her will be the easy part. Watching her be with someone else will prove to be much more difficult for you.
Guest
Posted Tue Jul 22, 2008
Darth-Vader wrote:
What is this, everytime I come here someone is in love or trying to fall out of love.
I smell bullshit guy, I think you should A) Forget about her or B) Find a way to win her over...the rest is on you.
Ya, you're right. Deep down I want option B.
Darth-Vader New Member
Joined: 22 Jul 2008 Posts: 3
Posted Tue Jul 22, 2008
Man, do whatever you want.
DOC Supreme Member
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 1256 Location: No place in particular
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
KezEnchAxchikEmEli wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
There is this girl I like, or should I say liked, or better yet, although I used to like her I've convinced myself to not like her anymore, hence I no longer prefer to say that "there is this girl I like."
The problem is that I try to avoid this girl as much as possible now, and seeing her around once in a while I find myself trying to avoid being seen by her as well. Either way my life is good, and I have plenty of females I date/fool around with, but, there is something different about that one girl I mentioned above.
I try to get over her, and I do a pretty good job at it, and then when I see her again the shit hits the fan inside me and I'm back to wishing that I didn't see her. Is there any help for me, or should I hang myself from my pe*** now and get it over with?
lol okay kyank i c lots og guys commented u, lool heres one froma GIRL... lol why are u hiding from her ?? if she knows how u feel? is it cuz she dont like u the same way?? OFcourse they way ur acting is because face it u dont LIKE this girl u LOVE this girl, in ur heart yerevi u think this girl should be ur SHORTY WIFEY TILL DEATH DO US APART lol u can admit it or not, i dont care vorov im a girl and hastat thats true loool
bites for real why are u hiding from her?? did she say she dont like u or what??? And u might have lots of hoes but only ONE girl can steal UR HEART and that isnt a HOE on day ur genna get tired of fooling around and look for the ONE...
What the hell did you just say?
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mr8bala Member
Joined: 22 Jul 2008 Posts: 40
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
im tayerd of dis pic arden can ou guys stop posting it gaaaaaaaaaaaaasssssshhhhh
DOC Supreme Member
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 1256 Location: No place in particular
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
Once you start using proper grammar I will consider it.
Actually I won't.
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mr8bala Member
Joined: 22 Jul 2008 Posts: 40
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
DOC wrote:
Once you start using proper grammar I will consider it.
Actually I won't.
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DOC Supreme Member
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 1256 Location: No place in particular
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
mr8bala wrote:
DOC wrote:
Once you start using proper grammar I will consider it.
Actually I won't.
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Yep
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DOC Supreme Member
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 1256 Location: No place in particular
Posted Wed Jul 23, 2008
mr8bala wrote:
DOC wrote:
Once you start using proper grammar I will consider it.
Actually I won't.
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Yep
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