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hypnaughtiq
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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By the way what happened to the option of posting polls?
So here is the poll.
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Will you be getting married?
A. Yes!!, soon, I am engaged!!
B. Not anytime soon / I am thinking about it
C. Waiting for him to propose
D. Not thinking about it, not important right now
E. Can't find the right man/woman
F. Never, not me, staying single forever,
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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| Quote: | | E. Can't find the right man/woman |
I'm 25 years old and it seems like ever girl I meet is not marriage material. I'm not saying that I fuc* every armenian girl (maybe most but not all) but I'm starting to think twice about whether I will ever get married or not.  |
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hypnaughtiq
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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| hypnaughtiq wrote: | By the way what happened to the option of posting polls?
So here is the poll.
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Will you be getting married?
A. Yes!!, soon, I am engaged!!
B. Not anytime soon / I am thinking about it
C. Waiting for him to propose
D. Not thinking about it, not important right now
E. Can't find the right man/woman
F. Never, not me, staying single forever,
pass it on... |
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hypnaughtiq
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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"I'm starting to think twice about whether I will ever get married or not. "
me too
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Sula
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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| What's the fascination with being married anyway? It'll happen when it happens, people... chill |
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DOC
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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Seems that for armos it's a "must". They're better off getting their shit together first and figuring out their future. Most armos who get engaged don't know WTF they're doing, it's mostly a tradition to please the parents. I'm glad I'm not one of these losers  |
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hypnaughtiq
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| Posted Sun Sep 21, 2008
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| DOC wrote: | | Most armos who get engaged don't know WTF they're doing |
i agree
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DOC
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive.
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hypnaughtiq
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| DOC wrote: | | I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive. |
I just see too many disaster marriages, mostly disaster, around me.
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818zGaTeKeEpEr
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| DOC wrote: | | I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive. |
not quite true, im only 20 and my dad insists on me getting married in the next year, hes always telling me when he was my age he already had me and what not.
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DOC
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| 818zGaTeKeEpEr wrote: | | DOC wrote: | | I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive. |
not quite true, im only 20 and my dad insists on me getting married in the next year, hes always telling me when he was my age he already had me and what not. |
What's your point? I don't think you understood me. Re-read what I wrote.
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818zGaTeKeEpEr
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| DOC wrote: | | 818zGaTeKeEpEr wrote: | | DOC wrote: | | I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive. |
not quite true, im only 20 and my dad insists on me getting married in the next year, hes always telling me when he was my age he already had me and what not. |
What's your point? I don't think you understood me. Re-read what I wrote. |
i understood just didnt finish my thoughts, point being is my dad wants me to get married and i dont cuz im to young
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DOC
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| 818zGaTeKeEpEr wrote: | | DOC wrote: | | 818zGaTeKeEpEr wrote: | | DOC wrote: | | I find it funny when 18-25 year olds are FIXATED on marriage. Strictly speaking about Armenian-Americans, our parents/grandparents brought us over here to have a better life why not perfect it THEN get married? Marriage is a big step and most of the time in the wrong direction. Marriage & kids can be expensive. |
not quite true, im only 20 and my dad insists on me getting married in the next year, hes always telling me when he was my age he already had me and what not. |
What's your point? I don't think you understood me. Re-read what I wrote. |
i understood just didnt finish my thoughts, point being is my dad wants me to get married and i dont cuz im to young |
Well yeah that was my whole point. Neither the parents nor the kids getting married know what they're doing. There's lots of opportunities in this country. Grab it and enjoy the fruits of our labor, then settle down. Half assed attempts don't count.
Most Armenian parents don't know wtf they're doing either. They just want grand children without thinking about if their kids are ready to get married or not. Also not everyone is mature enough for marriage. It is a big step. Lockdown. Shit, I'm thinking about it but I won't be married until I'm 26-28 and settled down. I still have a few years to go as far as my career goes and I'll be in a good position.
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KezEnchAxchikEmEli
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DarthVader
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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Axchka exadze incha vor chkaroxanam pahem, eeiya. I'm gonna get married to a perfect in everyway way, well almost perfect at least, Armenian girl and have babies and travel for the rest of our lives. Until then,  I shall be myself |
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Ms. Sula
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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Gentlemen, hold your horses. Here's one of the finer points nobody tells men about (akanjin ogh arek): the wife you boys would want and be the happiest with will not, repeat, WILL NOT care if you're established, can provide financially, have a career going, etc etc. She just won't. In fact, if she's anything like me, she'll always remember the "poor and broke" days with the man she loves as the happiest time of her life  Marry when you come across someone you can be happy with--not when you're "finally" established. Here's why: you will never be "finally" established -- there will always be more ways to grow. Make sure you pick someone you can grow with.
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myleftfoot
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| Ms. Sula wrote: | Gentlemen, hold your horses. Here's one of the finer points nobody tells men about (akanjin ogh arek): the wife you boys would want and be the happiest with will not, repeat, WILL NOT care if you're established, can provide financially, have a career going, etc etc. She just won't. In fact, if she's anything like me, she'll always remember the "poor and broke" days with the man she loves as the happiest time of her life Marry when you come across someone you can be happy with--not when you're "finally" established. Here's why: you will never be "finally" established -- there will always be more ways to grow. Make sure you pick someone you can grow with.
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True that..... |
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DarthVader
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| Ms. Sula wrote: | Gentlemen, hold your horses. Here's one of the finer points nobody tells men about (akanjin ogh arek): the wife you boys would want and be the happiest with will not, repeat, WILL NOT care if you're established, can provide financially, have a career going, etc etc. She just won't. In fact, if she's anything like me, she'll always remember the "poor and broke" days with the man she loves as the happiest time of her life Marry when you come across someone you can be happy with--not when you're "finally" established. Here's why: you will never be "finally" established -- there will always be more ways to grow. Make sure you pick someone you can grow with.
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Sula, you are a wise woman. Come here, give me a hug! |
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DOC
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| Ms. Sula wrote: | Gentlemen, hold your horses. Here's one of the finer points nobody tells men about (akanjin ogh arek): the wife you boys would want and be the happiest with will not, repeat, WILL NOT care if you're established, can provide financially, have a career going, etc etc. She just won't. In fact, if she's anything like me, she'll always remember the "poor and broke" days with the man she loves as the happiest time of her life Marry when you come across someone you can be happy with--not when you're "finally" established. Here's why: you will never be "finally" established -- there will always be more ways to grow. Make sure you pick someone you can grow with.
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In my current situation I barely have time to take for myself let alone others. I guess everyones situation is different.
You're not a good therapist.
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Ms. Sula
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| Posted Mon Sep 22, 2008
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| DarthVader wrote: | | Ms. Sula wrote: | Gentlemen, hold your horses. Here's one of the finer points nobody tells men about (akanjin ogh arek): the wife you boys would want and be the happiest with will not, repeat, WILL NOT care if you're established, can provide financially, have a career going, etc etc. She just won't. In fact, if she's anything like me, she'll always remember the "poor and broke" days with the man she loves as the happiest time of her life Marry when you come across someone you can be happy with--not when you're "finally" established. Here's why: you will never be "finally" established -- there will always be more ways to grow. Make sure you pick someone you can grow with.
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Sula, you are a wise woman. Come here, give me a hug! |
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