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SmpleGrl
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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I've got a problem. I have a very very low self esteem. People always tell me I'm attracive, I have a nice body, I have a great personality and so on...
But I don't feel it. I always go for low life guys who are not educated and dont have good jobs because I think thats all I'm worth. My friends, cousins, friends parents always tell me I can do better. What can I do to change the way I think about myself.
I see girls who are not very attractive but have great self esteem and always end up getting married to good guys. I don't see that In my future.
A childhood friend of mine recently got married to a great guy. I was looking at her the whole time on her wedding and saying to myself "I'll never be a bride like her" .
This has caused so much problems for me when it comes to dating and relationships. |
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Darth-Vader
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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The cause of your problem can be several things. I suggest you take some yoga or meditation classes at least 3 or 4 times a week. Seems like you have a build up of anxiety and maybe some other issues as well. There is no pilled form of solution for your problem, the problem is inside you, and only your mentality towards life can bring the positive change you seek.
Go now, and may the DarkSide be with you my dear. |
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Smplegirl
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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Im starting yoga next week. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.
I hope this helps me. |
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Darth-Vader
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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Yoga and meditation have cured many things. Remember, most of your fears are derived from anxiety. You are a pretty girl, and you should give yourself the chance to relax and consider the possibilites in your life, rather than comparing it with the actualities of other peoples.
Meditation can help you as well, it give you the oppurtunity to analyze lifes situation with a calm and controled mind. Regardless of the situation may be, with meditation you can overcome your fears of it.
You are welcome, and you are also welcome to the DarkSide when you please.  |
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Kiso
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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| Quote: | | I see girls who are not very attractive but have great self esteem |
well if you think youre prettier than these girls
then that means you dont have low self esteem=)
rather ..youre lonely and want what they have..its normal
the mind is a tricky thing
youre as pretty as you make yourself to be
doesnt matter how many compliments i get
if i never tell myself that im pretty..i wont listen to others
sooo
every morning you wake up..look in the mirror and recognize your beauty..tell yourself youre beautiful
its not being conceited..its just building confidence
trust me..it works=) |
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DOC
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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| *Checks mirror* Yumm I'm so sexy. *Stops* |
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| Posted Sat Jun 28, 2008
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Laughing My Fucking Ass Off. at this tread  |
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Anette
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| Posted Mon Jun 30, 2008
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| I think you are feeling lonely, thats why. |
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CHINO
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| Posted Mon Jun 30, 2008
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| I'm feeling lonely too anette. wanna be my friend? |
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Anette
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| Posted Wed Jul 02, 2008
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| I'm not feeling lonely. |
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| Posted Wed Jul 02, 2008
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| it's ok, be his friend dammit!!! |
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MZz*BlAcK*eYeZ
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| Posted Wed Jul 02, 2008
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| it doesnt matter how you look on the outside... you have to get comfortable with yourself in the inside first. |
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| Posted Thu Jul 03, 2008
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| ok anette, i'll go kill myself now |
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Anette
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| Posted Thu Jul 03, 2008
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| Anonymous wrote: | | ok anette, i'll go kill myself now |
Y? |
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eyOjuiCy
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| Posted Thu Jul 03, 2008
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esha ?
(:
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