I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
I second that. I think that so too. A guys has needs at least once a month and in my opinion if a girl doesn't wanna give it up its okay for him to have a one night stand with another girl. If I had a boyfriend and he wanted to do something like that I would be okay with it as long as he didn't lie when I asked him. If he doesnt want to tell me directly, he shouldn't lie ...
thats the exact thing that gives guys a reason to treat armenian girls like crap. now in my personal opinion i think thats the most stupidestt thing ive ever heardd because
1. just because a guy has needss doesnt mean he can go ahead and sleep with whores while hes in a relationship tats just wrong
2. if he loves you he would control himself if he cant then let him masterbate
3. if youre so concerned about his sexual needs then dont be with him especially when youre not willing to give him anything sexual
4. if his needs are so serious its his problem he shouldnt be with you in that case noone forces anyhone to do anything
5. how can you touch him afterwards when a whore has sweated on him thats just disgusting.
6. at last but not least if guys have needs girls have needs too, maybe not as much as guys do but still why dont they feel sorry for us if they would understand it? bcuz its not rightttt a relationship shouldnt only be about sex its about love trust honestly loyalty its a relationshio wit two people not two people and a whore.
i duno i think that you guys are wrong and im 100% against that i know guys who have waitedd for their loved ones to grow up so they can be together and theyre guys too they have needs also. all i think is that if the guy loves u hell control it period end of story
cutie i agree with u.. wtf why da hell would i be cool with my bf having sex with other girls.. xo xelar chek ee... if he respects me and has alot of love for me.. then he can put his stupid needs aside.. if he expects me to wait for sex till i get married or doesnt want me to cheat on him.. then hes not allowed to have sex with other girls... thats cheating.. and for the haymatnice or what ever.. if u think hes not having sex behind ur back then girl ur blind.. guys think with there D**k if my bf sleeps with another girl i will cut his D**k
dont tripppp Guest
Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
HyeMaintenance wrote:
I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
Thats pretty foolish of you to let him sleep with who ever he wants. Thats a double standard. Sex isnt a dirty thing. You just think it is because youve been raised to believe so. Its funny your man is going out and having the time of his life with other women while ur at home keeping your virginity and remaining pure for a man that has been boning alot of women. Your only giving in to your oppression by letting him sleep with other women.
Think about it, what if you get married to your current bf and u end up sucking in bed..u think hes gonna only sleep with you if you dont know how to please ur man? I dont think so..hes gonna go get * from other women.
IMLAZY818 Supreme Member
Joined: 01 Sep 2008 Posts: 561
Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
HyeMaintenance wrote:
I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
your just lowering your self in front of ur bf
Ridiculousaurus Member
Joined: 02 Oct 2008 Posts: 125 Location: Glendale, CA
Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
Guys have strong sexual urges -- but there's nothing stopping them from just masturbating... there's no necessity to sleep with a girl, let alone once a month. Don't let your standards of fidelity sink to a level where you think guys have to have sex with different women.
He should be faithful if he's serious -- end of story. The only reason it's sometimes hard to be faithful, is as soon as you're a taken guy... girls around you start throwing themselves at you (to varying degrees) to prove they're hotter than your girlfriend, or just to see if they can take another girls' man. It has nothing to do with a ridiculous need to have sex, and with different girls.
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*Shamiram* Supreme Member
Joined: 19 Aug 2008 Posts: 457
Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
Wow. This topic is still being DEBATED !!! UNbelievable!!!
KezEnchAxchikEmEli Member
Joined: 12 Jul 2008 Posts: 68
Posted Sun Nov 02, 2008
IMLAZY818 wrote:
HyeMaintenance wrote:
I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
your just lowering your self in front of ur bf
ba encha anum...
Trialsandtribulations Member
Joined: 15 Oct 2008 Posts: 37
Posted Mon Nov 03, 2008
This is my perspective on this topic:
I think that if the girl dosnt have a problem with the guy sleepin with other girls then its ok . But when does it stop, how do u know he wont continue to do that after your married...Second of all Condoms break.....And who could forget STD's. Besides the fact, it really depend on your relationship and the people in it... If you and ur BF are happy this way then fudge what everyone else thinks.
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Vartush Tati Guest
Posted Fri Nov 07, 2008
qutiiiee3 wrote:
MzZz_Erevan323 wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
MzZz_Erevan323 wrote:
HyeMaintenance wrote:
I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
I second that. I think that so too. A guys has needs at least once a month and in my opinion if a girl doesn't wanna give it up its okay for him to have a one night stand with another girl. If I had a boyfriend and he wanted to do something like that I would be okay with it as long as he didn't lie when I asked him. If he doesnt want to tell me directly, he shouldn't lie ...
thats the exact thing that gives guys a reason to treat armenian girls like crap. now in my personal opinion i think thats the most stupidestt thing ive ever heardd because
1. just because a guy has needss doesnt mean he can go ahead and sleep with whores while hes in a relationship tats just wrong
2. if he loves you he would control himself if he cant then let him masterbate
3. if youre so concerned about his sexual needs then dont be with him especially when youre not willing to give him anything sexual
4. if his needs are so serious its his problem he shouldnt be with you in that case noone forces anyhone to do anything
5. how can you touch him afterwards when a whore has sweated on him thats just disgusting.
6. at last but not least if guys have needs girls have needs too, maybe not as much as guys do but still why dont they feel sorry for us if they would understand it? bcuz its not rightttt a relationship shouldnt only be about sex its about love trust honestly loyalty its a relationshio wit two people not two people and a whore.
i duno i think that you guys are wrong and im 100% against that i know guys who have waitedd for their loved ones to grow up so they can be together and theyre guys too they have needs also. all i think is that if the guy loves u hell control it period end of story
Well to keep the relationship you need to do something to keep the guy with you its either u do it with me or i do it with some1 else. If you're old enough and think that you will be together until the end its fine to be with someon1 u love, but then again u can never be sure... I know some1 who has been with this guy for 5 years she didnt sleep with him but allowed him to sleep with another girl, when she turned 22 they slept together, but too bad hey broke 3 days later. life is complicated and everything is unexpected.
ya but u know its not right how can you sit home and do your own thing when your bf can be screwing somene at the moment no im so against tat if he loves u he should be all urs and he should controlhis everyy need and jst wait you know what i mean
Axchik jan ko nman mets mets xosacoxneri vra en frrrrrrrummm duuuuuuu u'ressssssssss?
Oh like married man don't cheat???? I am sick of hearing the same bull crap "if he loves you he will never have sex with other girl". Get over yourself and start living the real life where husbands cheat on wives and wives cheat on husbands. It is all about sex. ok? stop living in your fantasy world....Wake up and smell the coffeee....What are you 14?
818exquisite. Guest
Posted Mon Nov 17, 2008
looooooll if you think like this your probably 15 to 17 at most unless you really havnt developed a brain by then ..listen ders no such thing as a guy has needs
guess what once he finds a fudge buddy his going to want to be with her more because his needssss are making him gooooo
and youll be sitting alone on a friday night kalling him until 2 am bt he will be at a party with her then at the hotel fu*kin wid her yah shes da hoe your da one hes guna marry but guess what your just a pet..and if you let that bee then when you get married guess what hell be so used to cheating on you that he wont stop and then what will you do leave him for something you let him do...remember dont open Pandora's box because its hard to close
818exquisite. Guest
Posted Mon Nov 17, 2008
TO ALL THE VIRGINS HERE THAT DONT NOW ANYTHING ABOUT SEX LETS NOT
HAVE YOU TALK PLEASE READ UP A LITTLE AND YOULL LEARN SOMETHING AND
STOP DATING armo MY GODDD YOU MAY BE LITTLE AND CLOSE MINDED NOW
BUT ONCE YOU DECIDED TO MATURE HE WONT THEN YOU WASTED A GOOD 2 YEARS
OR SO ON THAT LOL
N YES I AM A VIRGIN LETS NOT VERBALLY ABUSE ME NOW LOOL I JUST NOW A WHOLE
LOT BOUT WAT AM SAYING YAHH DIIGGG
Michael Member
Joined: 19 Nov 2008 Posts: 26
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008
HyeMaintenance wrote:
I think its ok for my bf to sleep with other girls, as long as shes clean and he uses protection.
I was actually in a relationship and I told my bf you can do your thing , cause I dont want you to expect anything like that from me,I understand a guy has needs, but from what he told me he has to much respect for me to sleep with other girls, so hey he can never say I didnt let him.
Michael Member
Joined: 19 Nov 2008 Posts: 26
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008
MountainGirl wrote:
This is BY FAR the strangest thread I've EVER seen on this forum (and there've been some strange ones). I can't believe these are the things you girls are debating. Wow.
Note to self: start up more programs targeting teenage armenian girls
This.
Greenz Guest
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2008
i just tell my g/f that i dont sleep around. We have been together for 6 years and havnt slept together... but i gotta do what i gotta do. what she doesnt know wont hurt her... its been 6 years and we still have a good relationship... guys.. make sure u dont get caught.
Anti-Virus Member
Joined: 22 Jul 2008 Posts: 181
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2008
Greenz wrote:
i just tell my g/f that i dont sleep around. We have been together for 6 years and havnt slept together... but i gotta do what i gotta do. what she doesnt know wont hurt her... its been 6 years and we still have a good relationship... guys.. make sure u dont get caught.
"Make sure you don't get caught?!" People like you make me sick to my stomach; cheating is the worst thing you can do to a loved one. If you're going to do that, then you shouldn't be with her. I feel sorry for her!
Guest
Posted Sat Nov 22, 2008
Well actually women "needs" are more for a them than for us guys, our sexual peak is at 17 we won't be more horny in our lives than 17 as for girls is at 37
Guest
Posted Sun Nov 23, 2008
Greenz wrote:
i just tell my g/f that i dont sleep around. We have been together for 6 years and havnt slept together... but i gotta do what i gotta do. what she doesnt know wont hurt her... its been 6 years and we still have a good relationship... guys.. make sure u dont get caught.
Wow, that is horrible. What the hell is your problem?
Tchanan New Member
Joined: 04 Jan 2009 Posts: 16 Location: Lebanon, Beiruth
Posted Tue Jan 06, 2009
You did the right thing girl. I'm impressed how the feeling of jealousy does not belong to your orientation of life.
I think everyone should be like you. After all if you truly love someone, you have to be happy to see that s/he is happy even if your not with her/him. That's why they say: "True love is blind".
*Shamiram* Supreme Member
Joined: 19 Aug 2008 Posts: 457
Posted Tue Jan 06, 2009
Tchanan wrote:
You did the right thing girl. I'm impressed how the feeling of jealousy does not belong to your orientation of life.
I think everyone should be like you. After all if you truly love someone, you have to be happy to see that s/he is happy even if your not with her/him. That's why they say: "True love is blind".
There's a difference between loving unconditionally (and unselfishly wanting the other person to be happy, regardless of your own feelings) and letting them walk all over you .... Just sayin' ... This girl is letting the guy treat her like a doormat...
Tchanan New Member
Joined: 04 Jan 2009 Posts: 16 Location: Lebanon, Beiruth
Posted Tue Jan 06, 2009
*Shamiram* wrote:
Tchanan wrote:
You did the right thing girl. I'm impressed how the feeling of jealousy does not belong to your orientation of life.
I think everyone should be like you. After all if you truly love someone, you have to be happy to see that s/he is happy even if your not with her/him. That's why they say: "True love is blind".
There's a difference between loving unconditionally (and unselfishly wanting the other person to be happy, regardless of your own feelings) and letting them walk all over you .... Just sayin' ... This girl is letting the guy treat her like a doormat...
you are absolutely right, but I wasn't talking about the boy's behavior. I mean it's obvious that the boy has to act like the girl. If they love each other very much but they sleep with others, this has nothing to do with their relationship. who told that a girl/boy has to sleep with only one person. Let's leave that for the married couples.
*Shamiram* Supreme Member
Joined: 19 Aug 2008 Posts: 457
Posted Tue Jan 06, 2009
^^^ Why be in a relationship then? (Marriage is different....)
life is complicated and everything is unexpected.
... This girl is letting the guy treat her like a doormat...