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sj
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| my boyfriend thinks that his younger sister is an angel but i've talked to her many times/seen pictures and she isn't. she hangs out with a lot of guys behind his back and has had her fair share of "fun" if you know what i mean. i really want to tell him the truth cuz he deserves it, but i feel as if it would hurt him too much. plus, if he confronted her about it- she'd for sure know that it was me who told him. =( |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| My opinion is that you should just keep quiet about it. If she continues with all of it, most likely he will find out eventually. It is a small world as many of us know. Also, it is not really fun to get in the middle of family drama especially if you are the messenger. I don't think it is your place to get in the middle and you have to remember that she will continue to be his sister, regardless, and she could choose to try and make things hard for you within her family. It is her who is hurting herself by pretending to be someone else, so no need to hurt her family too. Just kick back and let things run their course...... |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| How is it any of his business what she does anyway? Or yours for that matter. |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| Let me ask you something. Do you have some sort of personal problem with this girl that would make you want to spread her bussiness around? |
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sj
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| i don't have a problem with her and i frankly don't care what she does... she brought me into her business by telling my about her personal life... it's not about her though, it's about my boyfriend. he deserves to know what his younger sister does- she is on the wrong path as it is. i don't want him to end up being hurt in the end but i feel like it's inevitable... speaking of it's a small world, what if the news gets to him and his sister ends up telling him i knew about it all along? it's just a fiasco, but i guess i'll try my best to stay out of it. |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| I highly doubt that his sister will tell him you knew all along. Unless she hates you for some reason, what does she have to gain from that? I am guessing that your boyfriend is very protective over his sister.If you think that by telling him he will try to caringly guide her on the right path, its unlikely. Most likely he will try to regulate her by not letting her go out, and be crazy Armenian older brother to her. Which will only make her hide what she does better. Not stop what she does. Have you tried talking to her about it? Maybe she will listen to you, an older (and hopefully wiser) girl. Just a thought...... |
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sj
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| i appreciate that helpful insight by the way. you're totally right and i guess i am jumping to conclusions. i don't want to ruin her social life, but then again it is embarrassing to my boyfriend to have a sister like that. i'll try talking to her but i don't really know how to approach her. |
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Anette
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| I think you should just keep quiet. Shit does not stay under snow for more than 30 days. When the time comes, he will find out. |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| Do people agree that the more young armenian girls are restrained by their parents/siblings, the wilder they get; especially when they get opportunities to go out ??? |
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v acht
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| sj wrote: | | i don't have a problem with her and i frankly don't care what she does... she brought me into her business by telling my about her personal life... it's not about her though, it's about my boyfriend. he deserves to know what his younger sister does- she is on the wrong path as it is. i don't want him to end up being hurt in the end but i feel like it's inevitable... speaking of it's a small world, what if the news gets to him and his sister ends up telling him i knew about it all along? it's just a fiasco, but i guess i'll try my best to stay out of it. |
HE deserves to know? Why him? Why not the parents, if at all? Why is she accountable to her brother of all people. Are these two in some incestuous relationship?
He'd be embarassed by her? I'd me more worried that he'd be embarassed of having a meddling girlfriend really. |
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eyOjuiCy
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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the truth comes out at the end, so juss let things be and im sure he'll find out eventually. :]
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Darth-Vader
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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I think what the girlfriend is trying to say to her boyfriend is; Hey, asshole, stop telling me what to do, when you should be telling your sister what not to do.
Either way, when the two of you get married, one of your children will rprobably turn out just like his sister so enjoy the mud slinging while you can. |
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V8 guffaws!
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| Darth-Vader wrote: | | Either way, when the two of you get married, one of your children will rprobably turn out just like his sister so enjoy the mud slinging while you can. |
Yeah! Perpetuate the ignorance! :o Also make sure you have several boys so your daughter can line up all her fathers to tell them what she does when they are not there. |
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| Posted Tue Jul 08, 2008
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| if there is a slight chance that his sister may end up being ur sister in law its probably best to stay out of it,because she may make ur life a living hell someday |
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ChiLlaXiN
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| Posted Wed Jul 09, 2008
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| sj wrote: | | my boyfriend thinks that his younger sister is an angel but i've talked to her many times/seen pictures and she isn't. she hangs out with a lot of guys behind his back and has had her fair share of "fun" if you know what i mean. i really want to tell him the truth cuz he deserves it, but i feel as if it would hurt him too much. plus, if he confronted her about it- she'd for sure know that it was me who told him. =( |
Tell your boyfriend.
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