If you're an attractive female and most have told you so, then believe it. At the same time you must believe it for yourself and strive to recognize yourself as a beautiful individual both inside and out. If possible, attempt to change your negative perspective of yourself by acknowledging all the great things about you and subsequently reminding yourself of all these things.
Great advice, thanks Barbie
You're very welcome.
Guest
Posted Sat Jul 05, 2008
CHINO wrote:
i am relaxed dutchess.....got my cognac and hooka and a empty house with no one to bother me what more do i neeD?
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V8 wary Guest
Posted Sat Jul 05, 2008
TheyCallMeBarbie559 wrote:
If you're an attractive female and most have told you so, then believe it.
What if some chick is not attractive but guys constantly tell her that because she put out when they do. Should she then believe it?
It would explain the inordinate amount of painfully unattractive chicks with inflated egos.
TheyCallMeBarbie559 Member
Joined: 05 Jul 2008 Posts: 53
Posted Sat Jul 05, 2008
V8 wary wrote:
TheyCallMeBarbie559 wrote:
If you're an attractive female and most have told you so, then believe it.
What if some chick is not attractive but guys constantly tell her that because she put out when they do. Should she then believe it?
It would explain the inordinate amount of painfully unattractive chicks with inflated egos.
The term beautiful doesn't necessarily imply physical features, rather unique characteristics that form the individual from within that make them who they are as well. If a female isn't attractive and males tell her that she is, then either two things could be possibly correct - the males really do find the female attractive (everyone is entitled to their own perspective of what is attractive), or they're lying for whatever reason it may be, or they're actually referring to her inner beauty. But then again, if a great amount of individuals (both, male and female) inform someone that they're beautiful, they must be pretty darn attractive. A female may be attractive to some, and not to others. Regardless, one's own opinion of themselves is significant and should be taken into count.
I will restate a small portion of my previous post:
"At the same time you must believe it for yourself and strive to recognize yourself as a beautiful individual both inside and out."
Darth-Vader Guest
Posted Sun Jul 06, 2008
Hello Barbie. 8)
TheyCallMeBarbie559 Member
Joined: 05 Jul 2008 Posts: 53
Posted Sun Jul 06, 2008
Darth-Vader wrote:
Hello Barbie. 8)
Hello, Darth-Vader. May the force be with you.
Darth-Vader Guest
Posted Sun Jul 06, 2008
8) And may the DarkSide be with you.
Guest
Posted Sun Jul 06, 2008
SmpleGrl wrote:
I've got a problem. I have a very very low self esteem. People always tell me I'm attracive, I have a nice body, I have a great personality and so on...
But I don't feel it. I always go for low life guys who are not educated and dont have good jobs because I think thats all I'm worth. My friends, cousins, friends parents always tell me I can do better. What can I do to change the way I think about myself.
I see girls who are not very attractive but have great self esteem and always end up getting married to good guys. I don't see that In my future.
A childhood friend of mine recently got married to a great guy. I was looking at her the whole time on her wedding and saying to myself "I'll never be a bride like her" .
This has caused so much problems for me when it comes to dating and relationships.
Kiso Supreme Member
Joined: 02 Jun 2008 Posts: 312
Posted Mon Jul 07, 2008
basically what ive been saying in different words... n a ^ LOL at that
HyeMaintenance Member
Joined: 04 Sep 2008 Posts: 156
Posted Thu Sep 04, 2008
gotta love yourself first then others
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