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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS--
YOUR EXPERIENCES? (if any)
AND JUST OPINION ON THE WHOLE LONG DISTANCE ROMANCE SHINDIG (can they actually work out)
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Hellokiddy
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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Just a personal opinion.
Never works. Don't do it.
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*Shamiram*
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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Depends on the personalities involved, their history, their approach, and a host of other factors. There is no hard-and-fast rule to this.
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Kid.A
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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I'm in one right now, works for me. Dunno why people think it's impossible.
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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de du kid es u dont have sex loll
jk hehehe im bored
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| UR 1 DREAM WIFEY wrote: | de du kid es u dont have sex loll
jk hehehe im bored |
^^ LOL
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Kid.A
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| UR 1 DREAM WIFEY wrote: | de du kid es u dont have sex loll
jk hehehe im bored |
That made no sense though. 11 year olds are having sex these days, and a relationship without sex is even more difficult to maintain, so I dunno what you were getting at 
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ResidentDevil
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Kid.A wrote: | | I'm in one right now, works for me. Dunno why people think it's impossible. |
I had one too..pretty functional too
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Kid.A wrote: | | That made no sense though. 11 year olds are having sex these days, and a relationship without sex is even more difficult to maintain, so I dunno what you were getting at |
wow well atleast the poster of the topic got me
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Kid.A
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| UR 1 DREAM WIFEY wrote: | | wow well atleast the poster of the topic got me |
It's not impossible to go and have sex with the person you're with... I dunno what you're talking about.
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Kid.A wrote: | | That made no sense though. 11 year olds are having sex these days, and a relationship without sex is even more difficult to maintain, so I dunno what you were getting at |
she was just JOKING sweets!  take it easy   
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HalfGirlHalfAmazin
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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I could never do it. But it does work out ..I know plenty of cases.
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Sm0t_P0ker
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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Sexting can save relationships.
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Sm0t_P0ker wrote: | | Sexting can save relationships. |
lol 
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1doll2nv
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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I personally wouldn't ever, I haveee to see my significant other at least once a week
Roja mihat che tenam jptam
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| 1doll2nv wrote: | I personally wouldn't ever, I haveee to see my significant other at least once a week
Roja mihat che tenam jptam |
lol
yeah i agree its HARD- but i dont think its impossible! with todays technology (webcam- skype) i dont know...
id see not being able to be intimate the ONLY problem in a long distance relationship.
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1doll2nv
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| LOVEDESPAIR wrote: | lol
yeah i agree its HARD- but i dont think its impossible! with todays technology (webcam- skype) i dont know...
id see not being able to be intimate the ONLY problem in a long distance relationship. |
Ya you right its not impossible, three good friends of mine are in long distance relationships, they somehow manage working it out, just not my thing I need to be able to see him whenever I please
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Fernando Torres
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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I ended one before it became a long distance relationship. I didnt even tell her to choose between me and the school she was going to. I just told her to go pursue her dream without me in the picture. Havent seen or spoke to her in almost 3 years now.
How do you even make a long distance relationship work? I personally wont be able to do it. The only way it can be done is if both are religious virgins and loners. That way trust wont be an issue.
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Fernando Torres wrote: | I ended one before it became a long distance relationship. I didnt even tell her to choose between me and the school she was going to. I just told her to go pursue her dream without me in the picture. Havent seen or spoke to her in almost 3 years now.
How do you even make a long distance relationship work? I personally wont be able to do it. The only way it can be done is if both are religious virgins and loners. That way trust wont be an issue. |
IF your in a committed relationship TRUST SHOULDNT be an issue regardless- even if she is a sex-freak and across the world ...& IF there IS an issue with trust- then the foundation of the relationship is wobbly to begin with- and its BOUND to collapse sooner or later (long distance OR not)
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Fernando Torres
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| LOVEDESPAIR wrote: | | IF your in a committed relationship TRUST SHOULDNT be an issue regardless- even if she is a sex-freak and across the world ...& IF there IS an issue with trust- then the foundation of the relationship is wobbly to begin with- and its BOUND to collapse sooner or later (long distance OR not) |
In a fairy tale world, thats true. And hey, there are exceptions to every thing, so im not saying youre wrong. But we all know the guy mainly is going to get his done on the side. Maybe the girl half way across the world might be able to hold herself back for a while, but im pretty sure, like 99.9%, the guy will find a way to get his done without know one ever finding out.
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Sincities818
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I couldn't do it..it would be to hard for me....if ur into the person. u wanna b able to see eachother atleast a couple times a week. it might work for some ppl but it wouldn't for me..i mean what if somethin happens and i need him to be there for me whats he guna do fly back and forth (although if he truly loves u he would). it would suck da big one if i couldn't be able to tanjel(in a good way that is) him whenever i wanted to.
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HalfGirlHalfAmazin
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| 1doll2nv wrote: | I personally wouldn't ever, I haveee to see my significant other at least once a week
Roja mihat che tenam jptam |
Ew doll et inch moment er? lmao
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MaratMilano
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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The phone sex will just have to be good 
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | | The phone sex will just have to be good |
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1doll2nv
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| HalfGirlHalfAmazin wrote: | | Ew doll et inch moment er? lmao |
lmaooooo hents etents moment er, I was actually cracking up while typing it
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SovChiTsovA
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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shindig? lmao
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Nran Sok
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | | The phone sex will just have to be good |
I was JUST about to post the same exact thing LOL
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Sincities818
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | | The phone sex will just have to be good |
phone sex isn't bad but cyber sex is better..lol..thats what skypes for..lol
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LOVEDESPAIR
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| SovChiTsovA wrote: | | shindig? lmao |
what?
was that a poor attempt of humor on my side? lol 
lol
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MaratMilano
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Thu Feb 25, 2010
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| Sincities818 wrote: | | phone sex isn't bad but cyber sex is better..lol..thats what skypes for..lol |
*downloads skype*
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