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TheOneNonly
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Do you believe there can be "just friendship" between a man and a woman/guy and a girl/male and a female? What prerequisites are conditions have to be there, or absent, for that matter.
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Sevada88
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | Do you believe there can be "just friendship" between a man and a woman/guy and a girl/male and a female? What prerequisites are conditions have to be there, or absent, for that matter.
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You mean like after breaking up/divorce?
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| Sevada88 wrote: | | You mean like after breaking up/divorce? |
No..neither, actually... Can a girl and a guy be just friends without developing any other feelings for each other? What has to happen for them to just be friends and nothing more?
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MaratMilano
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | Do you believe there can be "just friendship" between a man and a woman/guy and a girl/male and a female? What prerequisites are conditions have to be there, or absent, for that matter.
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The male has to lack sexual organs.
As well as have a below-average income.
Can't be any more platonic than that.
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*Shamiram*
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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Yes, it's possible; no other precondition except purity of intention...
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Sevada88
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | | No..neither, actually... Can a girl and a guy be just friends without developing any other feelings for each other? What has to happen for them to just be friends and nothing more? |
Yeah definitely but I don't know what has to happen. Just not having any feelings I guess.
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BoNeS
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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Yes, I believe that they can be just friends, although, I also believe once they continue to spend more and more time with each other and the more often they are together, eventually some feelings will develop.
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Envy
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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Yeah, sure it is. I have guy friends who I am not attracted to but we get along just fine. As far as I know, the feelings are mutual.
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randommm
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | The male has to lack sexual organs.
As well as have a below-average income.
Can't be any more platonic than that. |
lmao agree.
they can be hi bye friends but if theyre talkin everyday all day feelings are gonna develop
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Hellokiddy
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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Possible, yes. Likely, No.
Honestly, in my opinion when it comes to guys and girls being friends, there is ALWAYS something you're attracted to in that person whether it's their personality, beauty, body, something.
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| randommm wrote: | lmao agree.
they can be hi bye friends but if theyre talkin everyday all day feelings are gonna develop |
WElcome back wife 
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| envy wrote: | | Yeah, sure it is. I have guy friends who I am not attracted to but we get along just fine. As far as I know, the feelings are mutual. |
Maybe they are attracted to you? or will be later on?
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| BoNeS wrote: | | Yes, I believe that they can be just friends, although, I also believe once they continue to spend more and more time with each other and the more often they are together, eventually some feelings will develop. |
So the condition is, they have to control the amount of time they spend with each other or the topics they discuss and share with each other?
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randommm
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | | WElcome back wife |
thanks hunnyy but last i remember we were divorced :]
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| *Shamiram* wrote: | | Yes, it's possible; no other precondition except purity of intention... |
The question is...HOW LONG can that stay so with increasing amount of time spent together, etc, etc?
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TheOneNonly
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | The male has to lack sexual organs.
As well as have a below-average income.
Can't be any more platonic than that. |
+1 son, you nailed that one 
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ssatana
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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of course two people can be friends and not end up fukcing each other or hooking up. you need to know where your boundaries are, and if you know that you two are obviously not going to hit the sack any time soon, dont force her to do anything stupid. it's called common sense.... (sadly.. it is soo uncommon)
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TheOneNonly
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| randommm wrote: | | thanks hunnyy but last i remember we were divorced :] |
Last i remember was we were working on it..but sure 
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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I am on my phone so I have to keep it short...
But yes it's possible!!!! I know so from personal experience. It does become harder and harder after the the youger years but as long as 1 person does not want more than the other (this apply even more so if there is a romantic past) then it will work. The moment 1 wants or expects something more than friends the friendship is doomed to fail.
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BoNeS
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | | So the condition is, they have to control the amount of time they spend with each other or the topics they discuss and share with each other? |
Well, I suppose the more time they spend with each other, then they'll eventually start having more things in common.
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LOVE_EXPLOSION
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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such a stupid question. Are you honestly going to be attracted to EVERY SINGLE member of the opposite sex that is youre friend? if so you must just have one... and they happened to be gay
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myleftfoot
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Sun Feb 21, 2010
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Yes it is possible.
Pre-requisite: The female must understand that it is highly likely that the male will want to stick his penis in her vagina in addition to being friends. This fact will pretty much never change as long as you still have a vagina, ladies.
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GOR777
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | Do you believe there can be "just friendship" between a man and a woman/guy and a girl/male and a female? What prerequisites are conditions have to be there, or absent, for that matter.
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no attractions between eachother
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TheOneNonly
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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| LOVE_EXPLOSION wrote: | | such a stupid question. Are you honestly going to be attracted to EVERY SINGLE member of the opposite sex that is youre friend? if so you must just have one... and they happened to be gay |
Sar@ jur chka dzer tun@??? Lvacveir ban aneir, tenc mi mna mexk es bala
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LOVE_EXPLOSION
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| TheOneNonly wrote: | | Sar@ jur chka dzer tun@??? Lvacveir ban aneir, tenc mi mna mexk es bala |
???? elaborate
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Sincities818
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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personally no i don't think a guy and a girl can be friends..not while they are single atleast..their comes a point where either the guy or da girl start liking one another as more then jus friends..and sometimes things don't work out in their favor cuz what if he/she likes him/her but da other doesn't feel the same. it sucks. i've had many guy friends but it doesn't last for long cuz they have feelings that i don't have...when they tell me n i say i dont have da same feelings it just ruins da friendship.. but everyone is different.
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MaratMilano
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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I'd be lying if I said that I was ever friends with a girl that I wasn't attracted to at one point of our interaction.
Girls can do it. Guys can't.
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LOVE_EXPLOSION
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | I'd be lying if I said that I was ever friends with a girl that I wasn't attracted to at one point of our interaction.
Girls can do it. Guys can't. |
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MaratMilano
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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It's not to say I'm not nice to girls I'm not attracted to. I treat everybody with respect but I'm not going to try to pretend that we're "friends" and exchange numbers with them in some innocent way.
If I even have the desire to hold your number in my phone, its for a reason.
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LOVE_EXPLOSION
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Mon Feb 22, 2010
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| MaratMilano wrote: | It's not to say I'm not nice to girls I'm not attracted to. I treat everybody with respect but I'm not going to try to pretend that we're "friends" and exchange numbers with them in some innocent way.
If I even have the desire to hold your number in my phone, its for a reason. |
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