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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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I have been talking to a girl the last 2 months and as of 10 minutes ago it's over. We only got to meet up for coffee once over 2 weeks ago and that was it. Last 3-4 years I've dated mainly Armenian and a few middle eastern and it's not going well. Growing up I didn't know many Armenians so I never dated any but my relationships were a lot better back then. I'm just sitting here piling my hair out thinking I should give up. Every Armenian girl I meet doesn't want a relationship they just want to hang out with their friends and meet up once a month. Frustration.
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Vor
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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I LoLed @ your username 
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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Why is it that funny??
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watever
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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do you have a luxury vehicle?
just answer that and it will clear a lot of things up
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | | I have been talking to a girl the last 2 months and as of 10 minutes ago it's over. We only got to meet up for coffee once over 2 weeks ago and that was it. Last 3-4 years I've dated mainly Armenian and a few middle eastern and it's not going well. Growing up I didn't know many Armenians so I never dated any but my relationships were a lot better back then. I'm just sitting here piling my hair out thinking I should give up. Every Armenian girl I meet doesn't want a relationship they just want to hang out with their friends and meet up once a month. Frustration. |
how old is she?
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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How will this clear it up? I do. This girl never saw my car.
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Fernando Torres
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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what are you trying to accomplish with her? Serious or just smash?
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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She's young. It hasn't mattered though they have all been of varying ages but same results. My longest relationship in that time was just under a year and she was 23 at the time, but all the rest were much shorter and ages varied.
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watever
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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You need to be closer with them
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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I'm not trying to smash any one. I genuinely cared about the girl.
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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well if shes young shes dumb and doesnnt understand n e thing yet
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billybatson
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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| UR 1 DREAM WIFEY wrote: | | well if shes young shes dumb and doesnnt understand n e thing yet |
it's possible and I could have misjudged maturity but now I'll never know.
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Fernando Torres
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | | I'm not trying to smash any one. I genuinely cared about the girl. |
Did she friend-list you?
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watever
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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you do not want to be friend listed
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MaratMilano
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Sun Feb 07, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | | I have been talking to a girl the last 2 months and as of 10 minutes ago it's over. We only got to meet up for coffee once over 2 weeks ago and that was it. Last 3-4 years I've dated mainly Armenian and a few middle eastern and it's not going well. Growing up I didn't know many Armenians so I never dated any but my relationships were a lot better back then. I'm just sitting here piling my hair out thinking I should give up. Every Armenian girl I meet doesn't want a relationship they just want to hang out with their friends and meet up once a month. Frustration. |
As much as I want to tell that they're just foolish girls and that there are plenty of fine, eager, independent, and horny women out there that WILL do the right things...I'm with you on this.
I can easily relate to you right now and am also pissed at the fact that I'm gambling away my secured white-girl fling...for a shot at being with an Armenian girl...and she's taking her sweet old time and is beating around the bush. I feel you on the frustration, man.
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | | it's possible and I could have misjudged maturity but now I'll never know. |
she just wants to have "fun" and enjoy there youth not have a bf or w/e telling them what to do
i guess ive never liked tht thought butt yea
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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yeah i guess it's a friend-list thing? It's bull, things changed literally in the last 10 days. Saw she hung out with some Armenian guy that is clearly into her and she admitted it but said she doesn't see him that way 
I know a lot has to do with age but not all girls who are 18-23 want to party right?! not every girl needs to date 3 dozen guys before they settle down. Or at least it didn't use to be that way. 18-23 they just want to have fun and chill with friends maybe make room in their schedule for a quick lunch or they invite you to hookah with their friends. 24-29 (since i haven't dated anyone 30 or over) have an entirrrrre checklist they go through, What do you drive? where do you live? where do you work? are you in debt? what are you looking for? talking to any one else? etc etc and only after you pass the entire list will they ask themselves "ok now can I actually like this person".
The sad part is other races seem to be a lot more interested in me regardless of all those things. They make time, they will set up dates, ask to hang out, ask to come over, etc, but Armenian girls you ask and ask and ask and they "never" have time but they are chilling in PJ's at a friends house drinking jamba juice while txting you this............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just want to spend time with someone why is that so bad?! no smashing, no retarded sh1t, I am talking about dinner, movie, coffee, observatory, beach, ballet, sitting at the same dinner table doing homework, whatever!!!!!!!
Dream wifey, I am definitely in no way controlling. Like I said above I wasn't around many armenians, I even lived away for a few years and for other reasons Iam more American-ized and believe the best relationships are based on friendship. I want someone who is my best friend and equal who i would support through whatever, not a slave with a ring.
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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I do talk a lot sometimes, I must apologize for that in advance.
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Fernando Torres
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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Seems like you tried too hard to become her boyfriend and you didnt take a step back to notice what her intentions were in the beginning.
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Fernando Torres
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | | I do talk a lot sometimes, I must apologize for that in advance. |
you probably talked yourself out of what couldve been a relationship also.
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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too hard? we met up for coffee and talked for 3 hours, in 2 months of talking. It was just txting because she was so "busy" Other than keeping in contact there was no other effort that could even be made. Talking was the one thing we did have and it was going well lol.
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Fernando Torres
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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If she's that damn busy and doesnt even want to make any sort of time for you, then its a sign that she doesnt want get anywhere with you. All you can do is cut bait and get out. Move on to the next one. And dont look back.
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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oh i know what i'm supposed to do. my complaint is that this always has to be done. I am tired of just moving on to the next one.
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PUREinfatuation
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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maybe ur going after the wrong type of girls, or maybe ur not attractive so the girls only wanna be friends with u
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UR 1 DREAM WIFEY
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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lets see wut u look like pm hehe =D im looking for almmost everything u r too =]
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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I've gone for all types of girls!
and ouch do you really think that would matter?! I don't think most girls would go purely based off of looks there are lots of less attractive guys that are with girls. I don't think that was really a problem here though.
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| UR 1 DREAM WIFEY wrote: | | lets see wut u look like pm hehe =D im looking for almmost everything u r too =] |
lol it won't let me PM until i get to 50 posts
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LiLhYeCuTiEPiE
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | I've gone for all types of girls!
and ouch do you really think that would matter?! I don't think most girls would go purely based off of looks there are lots of less attractive guys that are with girls. I don't think that was really a problem here though. |
I think maybe most the girls you talked to were scared of change?
maybe cuz you were actually a decent, educated, and loyal man? and they're used to the type that they're typically attracted to?
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billybatson
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| LiLhYeCuTiEPiE wrote: | I think maybe most the girls you talked to were scared of change?
maybe cuz you were actually a decent, educated, and loyal man? and they're used to the type that they're typically attracted to? |
yes loyal. i have never cheated on anyone of any background ever. have been cheated on though.
With this one I don't know if this was the case. Last girl this could have been the case. I'm not trying to get into your pants, not trying to find arm candy to take to a club every week, not trying to waste your time... and for those reasons they waste mine. boo?
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LiLhYeCuTiEPiE
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Mon Feb 08, 2010
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| billybatson wrote: | yes loyal. i have never cheated on anyone of any background ever. have been cheated on though.
With this one I don't know if this was the case. Last girl this could have been the case. I'm not trying to get into your pants, not trying to find arm candy to take to a club every week, not trying to waste your time... and for those reasons they waste mine. boo? |
yeah then that's definitely the reason that they were scared of change. most girls don't give a chance to someone like you cuz you're usually not what they're typically attracted to.. but don't worry there are a lot of wise Armenian girls who will make the right choice to give it a try with a guy like you.. try meeting them from a different environment or something.. its rare but one who will take you and a relationship seriously exists I assure you.. don't lose hope
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