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*Shamiram*

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Posted Wed Oct 08, 2008
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Ridiculousaurus wrote:
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actually ridi here is not an Armenian lol...he just has a lot of interest in the Armenian culture

And a fierce attraction to the girls Razz They're just so sassy...


lol knew there had to be a catch..... anyone that can model evolution on this site is always welcome lol


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Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
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what are your thoughts about this subject, since its such a big one in the Armenian community.

is it right? is it wrong? would you marry one? does it matter? does it not? and so on.

I personally think it's only up to the two people in love, if they truely complete each other and meet their ends then no one or nothing should stand in their way. there have been times i sat down and actually thought about this, sometimes going from one side to the other, but at the end of the day true love is true love. people make choices for themselves, not for others, they have the right to do whatever that makes them happy, and i respect that.

I don't think there is "wrong or right" in virginity . I know how the Armenian culture is on that topic and I respect that. But this is 2008 and we do live in America. I'm not saying a girl should sleep with every guy she "has feelings for" or "is dating". But if you have been with the same guy for a long period of time and love him dearly then I don't see anything wrong with having sex. But you should alwayssssss concider the fact that you never know what is going to happen. My best friend was dating her bf for 5 years. They were High School sweethearts. She slept with him on Valentines day and thought nothing was wrong with it (I tried telling her to wait). A year later they broke up. She regrets it like crazy. I learned from her mistake. But that's just my opinion. You should just do what your heart tells you. But if you have the slightest doubt in back of your head then dont do it. Just wait till your honeymonn then you will make up for the past years lol
GOD!!! i cant stand it when people say that " its 2008" "its the 21st century" .... we know! it doesnt matter what year or time it is. 2008-9-10... doesnt mean its the years too forger your family values and become a whore! I dont believe in the as they say "papakan orenkner" but still people, were Armenian, be pure and ull be respected and loved. I know alot of people and i dont know 1 that would marry a girl whose not a virgin, so go figure, is it worth it!


Since your a man its easy to tell a woman to be pure. You armenian men oppress us in the worst way and actually control our sexuality. Being armenian doesnt mean u have to be a virgin until your married. If u want us to remain pure armenian women then why dont you men remain virgins until marriage huh? And armenian men dont want non virgins because of their own insecurities, they know that once a woman has experience she can compare it to other guys and see how much you men suck in bed!!! Smile And you women put so much value on sex...its not a big deal,, get over it its just sex. Its healthy and fun you dont need to be in love with someone to enjoy a good orgasm n e ways. God damn. And using the word whore is so pathetic. No one is a whore..its a fake word that has no meaning to it. The only reason armenian women stay virgins is because they are afraid to be called "whores" by both armenian women and men. This is so ridiculous because we cant even trust one another with our sexuality.


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Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
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Guestttt wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
HipHop wrote:
what are your thoughts about this subject, since its such a big one in the Armenian community.

is it right? is it wrong? would you marry one? does it matter? does it not? and so on.

I personally think it's only up to the two people in love, if they truely complete each other and meet their ends then no one or nothing should stand in their way. there have been times i sat down and actually thought about this, sometimes going from one side to the other, but at the end of the day true love is true love. people make choices for themselves, not for others, they have the right to do whatever that makes them happy, and i respect that.

I don't think there is "wrong or right" in virginity . I know how the Armenian culture is on that topic and I respect that. But this is 2008 and we do live in America. I'm not saying a girl should sleep with every guy she "has feelings for" or "is dating". But if you have been with the same guy for a long period of time and love him dearly then I don't see anything wrong with having sex. But you should alwayssssss concider the fact that you never know what is going to happen. My best friend was dating her bf for 5 years. They were High School sweethearts. She slept with him on Valentines day and thought nothing was wrong with it (I tried telling her to wait). A year later they broke up. She regrets it like crazy. I learned from her mistake. But that's just my opinion. You should just do what your heart tells you. But if you have the slightest doubt in back of your head then dont do it. Just wait till your honeymonn then you will make up for the past years lol
GOD!!! i cant stand it when people say that " its 2008" "its the 21st century" .... we know! it doesnt matter what year or time it is. 2008-9-10... doesnt mean its the years too forger your family values and become a whore! I dont believe in the as they say "papakan orenkner" but still people, were Armenian, be pure and ull be respected and loved. I know alot of people and i dont know 1 that would marry a girl whose not a virgin, so go figure, is it worth it!


Since your a man its easy to tell a woman to be pure. You armenian men oppress us in the worst way and actually control our sexuality. Being armenian doesnt mean u have to be a virgin until your married. If u want us to remain pure armenian women then why dont you men remain virgins until marriage huh? And armenian men dont want non virgins because of their own insecurities, they know that once a woman has experience she can compare it to other guys and see how much you men suck in bed!!! Smile And you women put so much value on sex...its not a big deal,, get over it its just sex. Its healthy and fun you dont need to be in love with someone to enjoy a good orgasm n e ways. God damn. And using the word whore is so pathetic. No one is a whore..its a fake word that has no meaning to it. The only reason armenian women stay virgins is because they are afraid to be called "whores" by both armenian women and men. This is so ridiculous because we cant even trust one another with our sexuality.


BRAVOOO u translated everything i been saying loll cuz to everyone i been speaking in an alienated language lol but baout the insecurities is totally trueee hahahahhah


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Posted Tue Oct 14, 2008
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When woman got married being virgins back in the 1900's, they got married at the ages of 14,15,16 etc. today we're more evolved. meaning most of us don't get married until we are 24, 25. The older you are, the more experience you have. Think about it.


A_REAL_ARMO

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Posted Tue Oct 21, 2008
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keep the culture alive dont be a whore just cuz were in America if were in America then shut up n vote and dont get free money go get a job then drive ur fudge mercadez


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Posted Tue Oct 21, 2008
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A_REAL_ARMO wrote:
keep the culture alive dont be a whore just cuz were in America if were in America then shut up n vote and dont get free money go get a job then drive ur fudge mercadez



lollll.... some people just shouldnt vote trust me.


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Posted Tue Oct 21, 2008
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qt wrote:
A_REAL_ARMO wrote:
keep the culture alive dont be a whore just cuz were in America if were in America then shut up n vote and dont get free money go get a job then drive ur fudge mercadez



lollll.... some people just shouldnt vote trust me.



rofl


LOVE_EXPLOSION

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Posted Tue Oct 21, 2008
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IMLAZY818 wrote:
qt wrote:
A_REAL_ARMO wrote:
keep the culture alive dont be a whore just cuz were in America if were in America then shut up n vote and dont get free money go get a job then drive ur fudge mercadez



lollll.... some people just shouldnt vote trust me.



rofl


uninformed voters.. tst tst

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Posted Tue Oct 21, 2008
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Stay virgins till the end !!!!! or your all *


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^ lololol sort es ungee


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Posted Wed Oct 22, 2008
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all the girls who say its okay for sex before marriage are the ones that have fudge and all the girls that havent are the ones that say u shouldnt

with that being said its a turn off when when a girls not a virgin too me ...call me old school all you want but id much rather wait til the honeymoon

and also girls ur not a virgin if youve sucked a * before stop lying to yourselfs:-)


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Posted Wed Oct 22, 2008
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OUCH wrote:
all the girls who say its okay for sex before marriage are the ones that have fudge and all the girls that havent are the ones that say u shouldnt

with that being said its a turn off when when a girls not a virgin too me ...call me old school all you want but id much rather wait til the honeymoon

and also girls ur not a virgin if youve sucked a dic* before stop lying to yourselfs:-)
Question um first part is not true i no many girls who are virgins and think its ok to have sex B4 second part about the oral, that depends on the person,

DEFINITION:Traditionally, intercourse has been viewed as the natural endpoint of all sexual contact between a man and a woman,[2] and is commonly confined to this definition today. The meaning of the term, however, has been broadened in recent years, and now labels at least three different sex acts. These three types of intercourse are: vaginal intercourse, involving vaginal penetration by the penis; oral intercourse, involving oral caress of the sex organs (male or female); and anal intercourse, involving insertion of the male's penis into his partner's anus.[2]

ya thats what the dictionary says lmao

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