Being a virgin is important, in my perspective, its the meaning of purity, well for girls, guys is a different story, do guys even have a virgenity?? neways I don't plan on marrying a "virgin" cause I'm a virgin and he's a virgin, then whos gonna know what to do??
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qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Fri Sep 05, 2008
HyeMaintenance wrote:
Being a virgin is important, in my perspective, its the meaning of purity, well for girls, guys is a different story, do guys even have a virgenity?? neways I don't plan on marrying a "virgin" cause I'm a virgin and he's a virgin, then whos gonna know what to do??
noo for guys it doess matter also es hayer@ vay mam jan. nvm im not even gonna get into it my mentality is totally different
guest111 Guest
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008
Here's my take on this whole "virginity" situation. Let's say a girl is a virgin, and plans to remain a virgin until marriage. She starts dating a guy, they fall in love, and give or take at least 2-3 years before they get married. Now are you guys telling me that you are going to remain faithful to your girlfriend, and not have sex for 2, 3, 4..or how ever many years it takes for you guys to get married??? Yaa right!! I don't believe ANY guy will remain abstinent from sex for several years and wait for that precious wedding night to deflower his wife. He will be having sex on occasion, while the girl has to stay "pure" for her future husband. Am I wrong? So what I'm trying to say is where does that leave us girls? Do you think that's fair? Come on honestly. You expect the girl to stay pure until marriage, but while your with her, you're constantly unfaithful and go out and fulfill your sexual desires. Now I'm not saying every single guy is like this, but seriously in reality what guy will give up sex for years and wait for their wedding? See this is the kind of world us Armenian girls live in. Constantly scrutinized, living under a microscope, while men do whatever they please and place these expectations upon us. If a guy really wants his wife to be a virgin, then it's only fair that he remains faithful to her until their wedding.
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Posted Sun Sep 28, 2008
this is how I like my non virgin girls
qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Mon Sep 29, 2008
guest111 wrote:
Here's my take on this whole "virginity" situation. Let's say a girl is a virgin, and plans to remain a virgin until marriage. She starts dating a guy, they fall in love, and give or take at least 2-3 years before they get married. Now are you guys telling me that you are going to remain faithful to your girlfriend, and not have sex for 2, 3, 4..or how ever many years it takes for you guys to get married??? Yaa right!! I don't believe ANY guy will remain abstinent from sex for several years and wait for that precious wedding night to deflower his wife. He will be having sex on occasion, while the girl has to stay "pure" for her future husband. Am I wrong? So what I'm trying to say is where does that leave us girls? Do you think that's fair? Come on honestly. You expect the girl to stay pure until marriage, but while your with her, you're constantly unfaithful and go out and fulfill your sexual desires. Now I'm not saying every single guy is like this, but seriously in reality what guy will give up sex for years and wait for their wedding? See this is the kind of world us Armenian girls live in. Constantly scrutinized, living under a microscope, while men do whatever they please and place these expectations upon us. If a guy really wants his wife to be a virgin, then it's only fair that he remains faithful to her until their wedding.
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
guest111 Guest
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
yup your right...it just sucks for us girls..we have to "deal with it" but its not right
WillLos26 Guest
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
ok i dont think many ppl care about virginity i rater have my girl not be one so i can be with her insted my ex was i ws faithfull 4 about a year then i broke up with her becouse i could not take it anymore
D0C Guest
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
qutiiiee3 wrote:
guest111 wrote:
Here's my take on this whole "virginity" situation. Let's say a girl is a virgin, and plans to remain a virgin until marriage. She starts dating a guy, they fall in love, and give or take at least 2-3 years before they get married. Now are you guys telling me that you are going to remain faithful to your girlfriend, and not have sex for 2, 3, 4..or how ever many years it takes for you guys to get married??? Yaa right!! I don't believe ANY guy will remain abstinent from sex for several years and wait for that precious wedding night to deflower his wife. He will be having sex on occasion, while the girl has to stay "pure" for her future husband. Am I wrong? So what I'm trying to say is where does that leave us girls? Do you think that's fair? Come on honestly. You expect the girl to stay pure until marriage, but while your with her, you're constantly unfaithful and go out and fulfill your sexual desires. Now I'm not saying every single guy is like this, but seriously in reality what guy will give up sex for years and wait for their wedding? See this is the kind of world us Armenian girls live in. Constantly scrutinized, living under a microscope, while men do whatever they please and place these expectations upon us. If a guy really wants his wife to be a virgin, then it's only fair that he remains faithful to her until their wedding.
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
Stop generalizing. Shit.
qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
D0C wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
guest111 wrote:
Here's my take on this whole "virginity" situation. Let's say a girl is a virgin, and plans to remain a virgin until marriage. She starts dating a guy, they fall in love, and give or take at least 2-3 years before they get married. Now are you guys telling me that you are going to remain faithful to your girlfriend, and not have sex for 2, 3, 4..or how ever many years it takes for you guys to get married??? Yaa right!! I don't believe ANY guy will remain abstinent from sex for several years and wait for that precious wedding night to deflower his wife. He will be having sex on occasion, while the girl has to stay "pure" for her future husband. Am I wrong? So what I'm trying to say is where does that leave us girls? Do you think that's fair? Come on honestly. You expect the girl to stay pure until marriage, but while your with her, you're constantly unfaithful and go out and fulfill your sexual desires. Now I'm not saying every single guy is like this, but seriously in reality what guy will give up sex for years and wait for their wedding? See this is the kind of world us Armenian girls live in. Constantly scrutinized, living under a microscope, while men do whatever they please and place these expectations upon us. If a guy really wants his wife to be a virgin, then it's only fair that he remains faithful to her until their wedding.
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
Stop generalizing. Shit.
oh pleasee like youre any differentt
D0C Guest
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
qutiiiee3 wrote:
D0C wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
guest111 wrote:
Here's my take on this whole "virginity" situation. Let's say a girl is a virgin, and plans to remain a virgin until marriage. She starts dating a guy, they fall in love, and give or take at least 2-3 years before they get married. Now are you guys telling me that you are going to remain faithful to your girlfriend, and not have sex for 2, 3, 4..or how ever many years it takes for you guys to get married??? Yaa right!! I don't believe ANY guy will remain abstinent from sex for several years and wait for that precious wedding night to deflower his wife. He will be having sex on occasion, while the girl has to stay "pure" for her future husband. Am I wrong? So what I'm trying to say is where does that leave us girls? Do you think that's fair? Come on honestly. You expect the girl to stay pure until marriage, but while your with her, you're constantly unfaithful and go out and fulfill your sexual desires. Now I'm not saying every single guy is like this, but seriously in reality what guy will give up sex for years and wait for their wedding? See this is the kind of world us Armenian girls live in. Constantly scrutinized, living under a microscope, while men do whatever they please and place these expectations upon us. If a guy really wants his wife to be a virgin, then it's only fair that he remains faithful to her until their wedding.
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
Stop generalizing. Shit.
oh pleasee like youre any differentt
Looks like you haven't been reading my posts then.
Fudge off.
Sula Guest
Posted Tue Sep 30, 2008
qutiiiee3 wrote:
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
I know of a number of hayastantsi guys that are rather evolved and don't believe in the virginity bs. Great guys too. You know what they say: "seek and ye shall find". (and that's the only time you'll hear me quoting religious nonsense of any kind--i think lol) Anyway, like Doc says, don't generalize.
qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Wed Oct 01, 2008
Sula wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
I know of a number of hayastantsi guys that are rather evolved and don't believe in the virginity bs. Great guys too. You know what they say: "seek and ye shall find". (and that's the only time you'll hear me quoting religious nonsense of any kind--i think lol) Anyway, like Doc says, don't generalize.
ya but theyre verry hard to finddd u must be blessed for knowing guys like that lolzz
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Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
qutiiiee3 wrote:
Sula wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
I know of a number of hayastantsi guys that are rather evolved and don't believe in the virginity bs. Great guys too. You know what they say: "seek and ye shall find". (and that's the only time you'll hear me quoting religious nonsense of any kind--i think lol) Anyway, like Doc says, don't generalize.
ya but theyre verry hard to finddd u must be blessed for knowing guys like that lolzz
actually most guys will soon be like that since all girls go out to clubs and get f*cked. sad but true
qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
Anonymous wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
Sula wrote:
qutiiiee3 wrote:
ehh dont even bother with these hayastanci men. i been tallking and talking and talkinngg u think they careeee. hetamenatsatsen tenc el kemenan.
I know of a number of hayastantsi guys that are rather evolved and don't believe in the virginity bs. Great guys too. You know what they say: "seek and ye shall find". (and that's the only time you'll hear me quoting religious nonsense of any kind--i think lol) Anyway, like Doc says, don't generalize.
ya but theyre verry hard to finddd u must be blessed for knowing guys like that lolzz
actually most guys will soon be like that since all girls go out to clubs and get f*cked. sad but true
ya well guys arent too innocent themselves. i just think going and having a one night stand is so pathetic and sad i cant imagine the people who would do that
Ridiculousaurus Member
Joined: 02 Oct 2008 Posts: 117 Location: Glendale, CA
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
Grow up. The double standard that men can sleep around, yet women need to be "untouched" or some shit is absurd; This is the 21st century and not only do I advocate equality, I insist that young women embrace their sexuality.
Be smart, be adventurous. Any man who can throw you away, and all your magnificent qualities, because you've had sex with another man in another time in your life -- either doesn't love you for who you are, or needs a reality check.
Besides... girl's that know what they're doing are far more fun! I don't think it's explicitly mentioned enough how BAD a lot of girls are in bed; Do you know how much work it is as a guy if you have to do everything? If the girl can take control and actually know what she's doing -- that's not only amazing, but will allow for so much more sex when the guy might be kind of tired!
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818zLiLTriGz Member
Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 91 Location: Glendale kiLa KalLi
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
Seņor Doc wrote:
kiso0 wrote:
im not all too religious
i wouldnt feel comfortable being with more than one guy..or a guy who wasnt my husband
OR maybe its just that boys have cooties! pheww
+1
-1 for mentioning cooties.
so 0 ??
lolll that was hallerious
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qutiiiee3 Supreme Member
Joined: 22 Aug 2008 Posts: 343
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
Ridiculousaurus wrote:
Grow up. The double standard that men can sleep around, yet women need to be "untouched" or some shit is absurd; This is the 21st century and not only do I advocate equality, I insist that young women embrace their sexuality.
Be smart, be adventurous. Any man who can throw you away, and all your magnificent qualities, because you've had sex with another man in another time in your life -- either doesn't love you for who you are, or needs a reality check.
Besides... girl's that know what they're doing are far more fun! I don't think it's explicitly mentioned enough how BAD a lot of girls are in bed; Do you know how much work it is as a guy if you have to do everything? If the girl can take control and actually know what she's doing -- that's not only amazing, but will allow for so much more sex when the guy might be kind of tired!
no i agree trust me io been fightin with all the hay men up in here trying to get that point across but im just saying * exnelnel mi ban chi eli
818zGaTeKeEpEr Supreme Member
Joined: 01 Sep 2008 Posts: 389 Location: 818
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
Ridiculousaurus wrote:
Grow up. The double standard that men can sleep around, yet women need to be "untouched" or some shit is absurd; This is the 21st century and not only do I advocate equality, I insist that young women embrace their sexuality.
Be smart, be adventurous. Any man who can throw you away, and all your magnificent qualities, because you've had sex with another man in another time in your life -- either doesn't love you for who you are, or needs a reality check.
Besides... girl's that know what they're doing are far more fun! I don't think it's explicitly mentioned enough how BAD a lot of girls are in bed; Do you know how much work it is as a guy if you have to do everything? If the girl can take control and actually know what she's doing -- that's not only amazing, but will allow for so much more sex when the guy might be kind of tired!
armenians have a different mentality then other races. just because one race or group doses something that doesn't mean the rest or the world should act and do as they do.
if people start to jump off a cliff without any safety precautions, would u?
thats what ur basically saying
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Ridiculousaurus Member
Joined: 02 Oct 2008 Posts: 117 Location: Glendale, CA
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2008
818zGaTeKeEpEr wrote:
armenians have a different mentality then other races. just because one race or group doses something that doesn't mean the rest or the world should act and do as they do.
if people start to jump off a cliff without any safety precautions, would u?
thats what ur basically saying
I think you need to re-read my post, because from the sound of what you're saying -- you clearly misunderstood what I was tying to say; I didn't mention anything about doing what other races do.
I'm talking about individualism. Equality is paramount. We are all different while all being human, which binds us to common ground. To use your backwards metaphor to help you understand my point -- if people are jumping off a cliff with no "safety precautions"...
It wouldn't matter if I'm Armenian. English. Purple. Hungry. I would ask myself, "what do I want to do?"
The whole point is -- the other people don't matter. I understand Armenians have a different mentality, but like all cultures there are outdated practices. I have no problem with people making conscious decisions about who they want to be, but the majority of ethnocentric Armenians are that way because they don't know anything else... and have no one around then encouraging change.
Maybe this is where we'd come to disagree -- but I think you can be Armenian, and gay. I think you can be Armenian, and promiscuous. I think you can be Armenian, and challenge the beliefs and values of your heritage. Just because you are born a certain way, does not mean anything about who you are, or what you believe...
You know what they say: "seek and ye shall find". (and that's the only time you'll hear me quoting religious nonsense of any kind--i think lol) Anyway, like Doc says, don't generalize.
